Wellness and forgiveness Forms › Coping Strategies › Wellness and forgiveness Previous / Next Coping StrategiesPart 14 - Wellness and forgiveness 💾 The direction of wellness 💾 Here are two very blunt questions for you to consider if you have ever been hurt, harmed or wronged. Q: Can striving for justice (such as revenge, retribution, punishment, payback, retaliation) bring you wellness, or are they two different beasts altogether? Similarly, if you have become a victim of someone or something... Q: Can being in the state of victimhood give you wellness, or not? The reason we ask these questions is that at Self Detective our only concern is your well-being and the well-being of others. If seeking justice or being in a passive victim-mode doesn’t help your well-being or gets in the way of your wellness, then perhaps it’s not the path to take. 💾 💾 Wellness and forgiveness 💾 Here is another couple of direct questions for you to ponder. Q: If you have been hurt or harmed or wronged in any way, what are your options? Q: If you have hurt or harmed or wronged someone else in any way, what are your options? Might there be a choice to make between doing something about it and doing nothing? Might there be a decision to make as to whether you can move on from the pain/shame or whether you cannot? Which then might raise the question: Can I truly move on without some form of letting go, without some form of forgiveness, either to another or to myself (or both)? 💾 💾 Forgiveness 💾 In Polynesian culture, particularly in Hawaii, forgiveness and reconciliation are an important part of avoiding sickness. They have a word, Ho’o pono pono, which translates into English as: “To put to rights.” They also have the following mantra: “I’m sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you.” 💾 How much does guilt, shame and/or blame affect your life? A: 💾 How much does anger, frustration, hatred and/or bitterness towards others affect your life? A: 💾 Would you benefit from being able to let go of certain thoughts and feelings and to receive forgiveness from yourself? A: Continue reading This interactive workbook and many more are avaliable free at My Self Detective: Log in / Sign up / Go back Previous / Next My SD › Coping Strategies › Wellness and forgiveness